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Being Middle Class: The Pain of White adoptees

Being Middle Class: The Pain of White adoptees

Lately, I’ve had the opportunity to talk with several adult adoptees, all White Americans, aged between 30 and 70 years old, who were adopted in the States as babies or very young children. They contacted me after reading Split at the Root. Because of the immediacy of the emotional content in the book, they felt they knew me well enough to open up about their stories. While we hurt differently because our experiences are different, our understanding of ...

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Relevant Time Magazine Article

Relevant Time Magazine Article

Should Race be a Factor in Adoptions?

The Donald B. Johnson Adoption Institute, a non-profit, has for decades studied concerns that affect transracial adoptions. Their findings underline the issues I dealt with as a child such as feeling uncomfortable in the presence of Black people, lacking a mechanism to recognize and confront racism, and no sense of racial pride and did not wish to be identified as a Black. At the time and place, my German parents offered me Marian Anderson ...

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